Monday, May 31, 2010
What am I suppose to do with my life?
Along with a great good nights sleep, I'm going to read this article that was introduced to me quite some time ago. It puts a lot of great ideas out there and it continues to remind you to be honest with yourself. Read it and we will get started.
Have a great night everyone!!!
http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/66/mylife.html?page=0%2C0
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Its Wednesday
This got me thinking though how I haven't seen Beth in a year, and before that, it was about a year too. My friends are important to me and it frightens me how plaicant we all become with not seeing each other. I understand circumstances happen and that is the way it is, but it sucks. As adults, we have to become immune to it and it just kills me that these amazing people aren't in my life every day. My hope though, is that eventually, and that is a soon eventually, I will be in a location, with my husband and kids, where many of these people are in the same vicinity. I trust in this....
Well, until my next post. Here is a bit of good news. This bill stll has a lot to get passed still, but at least we have the backing of the commmittee. It'll add some brightness to your day. http://http//www.365gay.com/news/supporters-senate-panel-has-votes-to-end-gay-ban/
Now here's a little song. Have a great rest of your day!
Sunday, May 23, 2010
This is going to be a long post
We brought up a couple things up in the show for tomorrow. I just wanted to give the websites to them so everyone can get a little knowledge on what we were talking about. Like always, we never get enough time.
The 1st is is 365.com weekend watercooler. There was so much there this week I want to point out the DADT new. Especially the stuff with Nancy Pelosi Al Franken
Now, unfortunately the BP oil spill has lost its splash in the news which is not good. So much oil is still leaking that Florida Marshes not to mention all life in the Gulf of Mexico that is dieing. The first article is on Kevin Costner donating 'Ocean Therapy' technology to help out. How is it that this movie actor/producer has this and BP doesn't?
The second article is just an FYI on how much BP is spending per day vs how much they make per day. Peanuts I tell you, Peanuts on what they are spending.
http://http://www.csmonitor.com/Money/new-economy/2010/0503/BP-oil-spill-2010-How-much-will-it-cost
I can't remind everyone enough to pay attention. So much is happening and if we don't pay attention, we don't have a voice.
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Its Saturday
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Some new things going on with Dina and Gregg
Keep checking out dinaandgreggshow.com so you can keep up with all of our latest antics
http://http//hottalkla.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=category&layout=blog&id=137&Itemid=211
Sunday, May 9, 2010
Sunday, Sunday, Sunday
My Mother, and Her Mother
My mother was home with me through early childhood and I am so lucky that she was. All the good in her heart, how she reads people, how she talks to people all was digested in those early years. Some of my best qualities came out of those years. My amazing patience came out of those years. A patience that is so trained, it is aggravating sometimes to the people around me. These things I got from my mother.
Of course, this doesn't even include my manners, my behaviors that now, as I grow older, I see coming out more and more every day. One of these behaviors is how I can force the people around me to move quicker without even saying a word. All they know is that there doing a particular task more quickly and are shocked.
I also was educated those years at home with mom. She had the time to teach me and direct my curiosity so that it bloomed into intelligence and personality. Now, today in my 30th year on this planet, my mom is one of my best friends. She knows me best and is the first person I call when something really amazing happens or I need to be talked down off of a cliff.
After my brother was born, my mother had her hands full. From the point of my brother taking his first step, he hasn't stopped. He was a full time job and about the time he started school, she went back to work. I was self propelled by that time so she was less hands on with me. Please don't get this confused with bad parenting, she was still very active in my life, she just had some other major obstacles such as raising my brother, parenting my stepfather sometimes and working to help support our family.
About that time, my grandfather, Took Potter, passed away. Him and I were close. He was the main male role model in my life until this point. Well, this was the era where my grandmother and I really formed our bond. Despite my mothers intelligence and superior witt, my grandma is socially adept, has not only her degree but has been very successful in graduate school and is a sought out person in her field among her colleagues. While my mother was busy with the household, I began learning from my grandma. My grandmother influenced my young adulthood on formed how I treat people, respect people, and find hope in people.
While I was going through my adolescence, so was my grandmother. She had to redefine herself, not only as a widow, but as an independent woman in the prime of her life. The years that followed her husbands death, she bloomed into an independent, professional, nonstop power house whom repeatedly conquered goals, taught people around her, and showed people that there is so much that they can do for themselves and others all the while developing herself into the next phase in her life. I got a ring side seat for all of this and because of it, there is a language that my grandmother and I speak that is in and of itself. She has been my touchstone and I am excelling so much further in my life because of the influence she had on me.
I was home from college the summer of 2003 and I stayed with her at her house. Grandma still to this day is the best roommate I've ever had. She sometimes didn't stay at the house because she had her boyfriend, but when we were together at night,it was always a party. We had the warm summer nights, wine and candles on the deck, and conversation for hours.
Well, that is my mother and her mother. The two strong willed, selfless and beautiful women whom raised me. When anybody wonders why I am the way I am, you can thank them. Or blame them. It really depends when you get me....
Saturday, May 8, 2010
Last week in Long Beach
Finally we ended up at the gay bars where I managed to not only get into a fight, but I took someones trick and brought the cute boy back to Christine's. It was a spectacular evening and here are some of the pictures. Thank you again Karen and Maureen!!!